For Parents

PARENTS BE AWARE

Your future driver is watching every detail of all the things you do behind the wheel and will likely do as you do. If you speed, use your phone while driving in any capacity, tailgate, try to beat yellow lights, are a Road Rager, or demonstrate any other unsafe driving behavior - your son/daughter will do exactly the same thing. Please be a good role model and set an example of responsible driving - do it for the safety of your future driver.

What to say to your student driver during Supervised Driving

Advice From a Driving InstructorIf you’re feeling anxious about this experience (your child learning to drive) and aren’t sure if you want to laugh, cry, or be afraid - I understand your fears as they are definitely warranted. I see a lot of ‘exotic driving’, a lot of shenanigans on a daily basis - in my vehicle and the vehicles around me. Learning to drive can be a scary process but it is necessary for these young, inexperienced, and easily distracted students to learn how to drive safely now and for the future.

Besides the generic ‘tips and tricks’ any claimed expert on Driver Education might say, these are the most common student driver deficiencies, the most troublesome situations we encounter during lessons, and what I say to kids to help them manage the roadways as safely as possible. I say these things as part of my Commentary Driver Training (#stcloudstate), essentially a complete narration of the student driving experience. My goal is to talk students through their decision making progress and identify dangers as I see fit. Every driver is unique and comes with their own set of challenges; some need lots of verbal direction well in advance and others need minimal confirmation of what they are already doing well. There is no substitute for experience and it’s instantly clear to me who doesn’t have it. My number one suggestion is to get as many hours of supervised driving experience as possible, it’s the best path to improved driving. 

If you’d like a further explanation on any of the topics listed below, or some other unique driving situation, Contact SMDS and we can discuss it.

Why is this process so stressful?

It’s a combination of Anxiety, Inexperience, and Distraction; all three are strong contributors to this stress but are manageable with a little practice, awareness, and patience.

Young drivers are more easily distracted behind the wheel because they’re still developing their driving skills and their ability to manage multiple tasks at once. Unlike seasoned drivers, teens haven’t built the automatic habits that allow experienced drivers to focus on the road while handling other demands. On top of that, their brains - especially the parts that control impulse and attention - are still developing, making it harder to resist distractions like phones, music, or friends. (So science is against them) Peer pressure and a desire to stay socially connected can also increase the temptation to check messages or talk while driving. Altogether, these factors create a perfect storm where inexperience, immaturity, and modern distractions combine to make young drivers far more vulnerable to losing focus behind the wheel.

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Distraction and the Teen Brain

By far and away the most concerning factor I see is distraction, and not in the classical sense. Often times student drivers have the driving skills necessary to be safe behind-the-wheel and I am comfortable labeling them as a “Good Driver’ or a ‘Safe Driver’. However, controlling a vehicle is one thing, staying completely focused on the driving task is another all together. Driving experience doesn’t just build skill, it builds mental bandwidth. When a new driver starts out, nearly every action requires conscious thought: checking mirrors, maintaining speed, steering smoothly, scanning for hazards, and following traffic signs. The teen brain is overloaded, so it’s easy for small distractions such as a phone buzz, a friend talking, a squirrel, a song change - to pull attention away from the road.

With experience, these routine driving tasks become automatic. As muscle memory develops, drivers no longer need to consciously think about every movement. This frees up mental space to focus on anticipating hazards, reading traffic patterns, and staying aware of their surroundings.

Good student drivers lose their focus all the time and it is in these moments where they are the most vulnerable; missing stop signs, misreading lights, not checking a blind spot, or not seeing something simple can lead to a fatal crash in an instant.  Do what is necessary to keep their focus where it needs to be.  

 General Tips to find Success during this process

Parents play a huge roll as the primary Point of Impact on these young and impressionable drivers, navigating this process is extremely important to development and overall safety. These are a few points to consider';

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What is needed to get started?

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What’s the process to earning a Permit/License?

There are essentially four steps that summarize the process of earning an Instructional Driving Permit and then Provisional Drivers License for most individuals in the State of Minnesota as highlighted below. This process is often times seen as very complicated and this our best explanation in it’s simplest form, you can read more about specific details of the process on other areas of this site.

  1. Complete 30 hours of classroom Driver Education from a State Certified Driver Education Program (EX: Any ISD196 Safety Ed class). Once complete, you will receive a Classroom Completion Letter. Take this Classroom Completion Letter to a State Certified Behind-The-Wheel Education Program (EX: South Metro Driving School) and enroll.

  2. Once enrolled (which means financially committed), you will receive an E-Card (Blue Card) and this gives you the green light to take the written permit test. Sign up for the ‘Knowledge Test’ and Complete an Application online.

  3. Passing the Knowledge Test earns an Instructional Driving Permit to drive; under supervision. At this point you must drive 50 hours under adult supervision and complete 6 hours of Behind-The-Wheel Education with your school. Once complete, you will receive an E-Card (White Card) and can move forward to take the Road Test.

  4. After completing the above, having an Instructional Driving Permit for a minimum of 6 months and turning 16 years of age, you have the green light to take the ‘Road test’ and earn a Provisional License to drive; with restrictions. Sign up for a Road Test and complete an Application online. Once the Road Test has been passed, you can drive home from the DMV.

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